The Ability to Say “No” After Marital Separation
I believe I was considered Superman most of my life. Not that I was a super woman, as I have faults, but I solved every problem for everyone around me.…
Life After Infidelity. The 10 Things I’ve Learned.
It has been almost one year and I still shake my head that my husband and partner of 30 years could commit the most heinous marital crime; Infidelity. For myself,…
I Don’t Want Your Pity
I have had numerous conversations today and received many messages of love and support. Again, I’m up thinking about life, but I never think about what could have been anymore.…
Why Are You Doing This To Me?
Famous last words from a spouse who doesn’t understand the repercussions of destroying a marriage. It’s 4:30AM, I haven’t slept a wink yet. I am at peace, yet I feel…
Just A Fool For Believing
I have cluster headaches. They are daily, they come go as my mind wanders, and they completely screw me up mentally. Today, I have a huge headache and I’m walking…
Anxiety Attacks During Marital Separation
I’ve been having a boatload of anxiety attacks since D-day. Every month they escalate where breathing and meditation doesn’t work for me in the moment. I’m very methodical in everything…
